Prepare for Your Future Together
Take a class in learning to negotiate, resolve problems, effective communication
Discusss financial matters, habits, expectations
Take a parenting class together
Take some preparation classes to learn how to disagree appropriately, communicate, etc.
Take some fun classes together (his hobby, her hobby)
Talk, talk, talk about everything you expect from a marriage and a spouse (children, financial situation, will she work after marriage, dividing time between the in-laws, etc.)
1) have a holiday together away from family, just the 2 of you...a good test as to whether or not you are compatible travellers
2) let him cook you dinner....see if he really can or if he just claims to love to cook
3) set the ground rules on family visits.... a key or need to knock?
4) get JOINT accounts
1. fast 2. pray and 3. listen for the answer on whether or not you are to marry that person.